I read an article about a French flight attendant who wrote a book about unusual experiences she's had as part of her job. One such experience was being asked by a woman with kids where the daycare was. Understandably bewildered, she asked the woman to repeat her question, and she did. When the flight attendant answered that there was no such service on the plane, the woman blew a fuse and went all "there's no place for me to drop my kids off? You mean I'm going to have to watch over them for EIGHT HOURS?"
Here's a question... if you can't even keep watch over your kids for a while, if you're not willing to invest time in them, why have them in the first place?